Unspoken Instincts

Lately, I have been suffering from this phobia of trusting people. You can say 'I have major trust issues' This has not only made me an introvert but has also secluded me from the rest of the world. People come and share their issues, problems, happiness, sadness, feelings, emotions, with me. I always stay by their side and listen but never share. You might ask me' Why don't you do the same'? Because I have a phobia called Pistanthrophobia!! Have you ever suffered from Pistanthrophobia? If yes, what did you do to overcome it?? Share with me to help me eliminate my fear.

Yes, I do!! I have broken many rules not out of curiosity or fun but because of the following reasons- I break the rules when it comes to my self-respect. I break the rules when it comes to my dignity. I break the rules when it comes to my happiness. I break the rules when it comes to my self-esteem. I break the rules when I am treated like a property/product. I break the rules when it comes to my value. I break the rules when it comes to my worth. I break the rules when pressure is exerted on me. I break free and come out of the place that makes my mind a mess. And I don't even call it breaking the rules! I call it standing up for yourself when you know you are right. I believe in doing things in a powerful manner even if people think I am breaking all the rules. Have you ever been a rebel in your professional life? What do you call a person who always stands up for the right things and never cares about the rules? P.S-  Eagerly waiting for your feedback. Negatives and Positives a

If yes, then you should know that it is one of the dreaded crimes!! Stalking is not only physical, it is electronic too and you can be stalked easily via emails, phone calls other digital networks. Stalking is not always on a personal level, it can be Professional too!! One thing that I have learned about stalking is that it is not always out of the physical attraction, but can be due to your profession as well. Instead of making robust policies about stalking, Some organizations will do the opposite. BEWARE! Repeated phone calls, e-mails, using the internet to follow you, and too much-unwanted contact, are the signs of Stalking, I've experienced. Whenever you join any organization, make sure that they have a 'Workplace Stalking Policy' to safeguard your interests. Have you ever face anything like Stalking?? If yes, please do share and give out your suggestions on the same. P.S-  Stalkers will try to break your wings, but they forget that you have claws too!!

There's a considerable difference between a Feminist and a Pseudo Feminist. FEMINIST = Stands for EQUALITY PSEUDO FEMINIST = Expects Everything from a particular gender/ Inequality Pseudo feminists can be found anywhere. They can be men as well as women. If you meet a person with the following attributes, then he/she is definitely a Pseudo Feminist - Someone who thinks 'Real women have curves' Someone who pressurizes men to fit into the modern beauty standards (Abs, Six-packs, etc) Someone who thinks 'Rape is a woman's fault' Someone who thinks 'Men cannot be raped' Someone who thinks 'Menstruation shouldn't be talked about openly' Someone who thinks respecting women is a must instead of respecting mankind. Someone who has a particular dislike against homosexual people. Someone who has a belief that women are better than men in all cases. These were just a few examples. On the whole, A pseudo-feminist is the one who will deviate the point of

Yes, I have been thinking about writing it for a long time, but didn't. Here are a few questions that have been bothering me - What is the relationship between age and marriage? Is it necessary to get married if you have entered your twenties? Why are parents scared or so concerned about society? What will 'people think'? Is it something to be worried about? Is it necessary to have a husband before you have a career? Is it necessary to get married before you turn 30? Are parents trying to get rid of us by marrying us to unknown strangers without our wishes? Is it bad to have dreams and ambitions? Is it bad if you vision yourself alone fulfilling them? These are a few questions that have been bothering me, since the day I've entered my twenties. I am never really able to celebrate my birthday properly because I am scared, if I get any more old, my family will tell me to get married!! I don't think it's necessary to get married if you are not ready physically, emo