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How do you calm your racing mind?

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Have you ever experienced your mind bursting with so many thoughts at a time? Have you kept a pillow on your ears to shut down the racing mind so that you can sleep? Have you ever been so messed up that your mind doesn’t listen to you and keep going in its own direction? Have you ever faced difficulty sleeping due to the racing mind? Have you ever tried your hardest to control your mind and yet all in vain? Since last night, my mind is filled with thoughts and is racing as fast as the forest catches fire. I have tried to listen to the music to stop it, tried to read a good book, tried to interact with my friends, but all in vain. Have you ever faced a dilemma just like this? If yes, help me out with your suggestions.

Career Stagnation

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Do you ever feel sick on Monday mornings just because you have to go to the office? Have you ever felt like dragging the day so that it comes to an end? Do you feel irritable and gloomy at your workplace? If yes, then you are definitely going through a point of career stagnation in your lives. The feeling of stagnation in career might be because of the following reasons – Feeling boredom at workplace that might occur when you have no challenging tasks in your job. If there are no challenges as per the skill you possess then it’s time for a change. In case your current job doesn’t provide you with any new scope of learning, then again it will lead to decrease in the work progress that might make you feel demotivated. In this case, again, you need a change. If your skills are not fully being utilized, and there is no scope of skill implementation in your job, you will feel that you are on a point of career stagnation. The most important point, if you don’t have any opportunities for grow...

24 hours a day – Is it really enough?

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Most of the times, I have felt that 24 hours are not enough! Is it so? Have you ever felt that? Or is it a matter of priorities or time management skills? I have never really found out the reason behind this.  I have always tried my hardest to fulfil all my expectations that I have from myself but fail to do so as some of the things are always left at the end of the day. Sometimes, I don’t have time to watch TV series, sometimes I fail to complete the book I’m reading, sometimes I am unable to give time to my poetry, sometimes I am unable to post on LinkedIn, most of the times, I fail to decorate my room and leave it in the middle, many times, I have failed to water my plants and the list goes on and on.  Will I ever get time for all this? Have you ever felt dissatisfied with yourself?  As soon as the new day starts, it feels like a countdown has begun and it makes me worrisome.  I think of completing all the tasks and but the end of the day, only some tasks are fini...

Women are STRONG, not FRAGILE

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To all the ladies, here are some of the proven scientific facts that will make you realize, you are indeed very STRONG (You can count them as your SUPERPOWERS) - You have a stronger immune system due to the presence of the extra X chromosome.  Your tears can reduce the testosterone levels in men ;)  As per the experiments conducted, women are the Goddess of multi-tasking. So, cheer up Girl :)  If women are stressed up, they become more empathetic.  They feel like reaching out to more and more people to offer help.  Women have the power to experience Obstetrical Orgasms (Pleasure might be the last thing to associate with childbirth, but yes, they do get an orgasm while childbirth) (It's indeed a superpower)  These superpowers are surely going to make you feel proud. Keep the spirits up :) Never let the thoughts like, 'You are fragile' disturb you.  Let the countdown of your superpowers begin!!  Till then stay tuned :) 

Respect everyone!

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We are in the times where we need to destroy the idea that men should respect women just because we are their daughters, mothers, sisters or lovers. It's time to reinforce a new idea where we all need to respect each other and men should respect 'Women' not because of the above-said relations but because 'Women are humans too' !! On the whole, I would say, every human being must respect every other human being for the sake of humanity. Build new paths together by respecting and empowering each other. It's time for a change!!

We all bleed the same colour!!!

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I have this feeling of intense dislike for those people who differentiate people on the basis of colour. Dark skin is not a crime and a lighter or a fairer skin will never be a prized possession. How can people think that the skin colour defines us? Is it not our words, actions and mentality that defines who we are? Don't you think, a smile will be a smile no matter the face? A kind and happy soul will be it, no matter the race? Eventually, we should all understand that our skin colours are not going to define us. It's time to stop judging people on the basis of their skin colour, instead, the first impression should focus on their nature, personality and behaviour. I have seen racism being practised in our country. Even if it's not that major, but it shouldn't be that minor too. People still judge each other on the basis of their colour and this is something very bad that I've come across. It's time to let go of all the racism as we all bleed the same colour. W...

Feminism = Gender Equality

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Feminism is the fight for equality. Many of the men might roll their eyes or belittle this idea of feminism. Let's not part our ways to run away from the topic. It's time to openly discuss it peacefully. People often treat females supporting the term feminist as 'Man-hating'. I would say, this is wrong. I am a feminist too. But that doesn't mean I hate men. It means I value men and women both. It just means that there must be equality in genders. It's just the word 'Fem' in Feminism that makes it sound ridiculous or offending for some men.  The idea is nevertheless to put women above men or vice versa. It's all about equality. As per the researches, historically and statistically, women are the ones who are suffering from inequality since the time of 'Mahabharata', so this is the basic reason behind the term 'Feminism'. However, there are some parts where even men face inequalities like they are expected to dress up in a certain way, ...